A Soulmate

A relationship not depending merely upon the exchange of rings but that of thoughts, bond transparency of which surpasses mere knot of some fabric, a reliance that doesn't necessarily need a declaration in the name of religion or exchange of vows and that which is beyond the made-up concepts of humans. A person with whom your relationship looks up for the above-mentioned horizons can be your soulmate.

Now not every bond you share is your soulmate and not always will that person be your better half. This person can be anyone with whom you realize your self-worth, with whom you feel homely, the one who energizes you beyond words and become your strength to face the world. And believe me, not everyone is blessed with a soulmate but if you have one in your life, savor their bond. They are a priceless possession, never lose them.

Nowadays we offer ever decreasing time schedules for the people who really care for us. We tend to befall for the people who aren’t really worth our time. Like, take our own mothers for instance, as they will understand us and we, knowing this fact try to belittle their importance every other day. We become generalized dealing with them and that becomes our biggest fault because we start seeing the world keeping this fact in mind and we try to fit everyone in the standards of our mother. We make wrong choices in the process.

We become real late in deciding on what really matters us, in this aspect of life we as humans have become a tortoise. We ask for more, our expectations with generous people like our mother's increases. We should realize that it’s a world of giving and take and that’s but a harsh reality.
Thus to have a soulmate kind of a bond we need to become one and as they say, the study starts at home. So try not generalizing people on the basis of their availability, be happy in what is being offered, don’t want for what will never be yours, value what you already have in your life, let these soulmates of yours not slip away from your hand in the run for what may never end up as one.

Believe me, you are always surrounded by ample opportunities you need to just be the one to get one.